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KIDs love it and learn SO much
Fun Fun Fun. Surprisingly popular! Used with 4th, 5th grades... won over nearly every kid! really, with WORMS! Worms eat Our Garbage
For the ecology minded, teachers, homeschoolers or anyone interested in activites to show the importance of worms in keeping our planet clean and healthy this is an absolute must have book.. Activities for all gradelevels, nicely supplement Mary Appelhof's book Worms Eat my Garbage. I havenever been so excited by a book.Kids of all ages will find the subjectmatter fascinating, even those afraid of "slimy" things. ... Read more

Subjects:  1. Activity programs    2. Children: Grades 3-4    3. Earthworms    4. Education / Teaching    5. Environmental education    6. Recycling (Wastes, etc.)    7. Study and teaching (Elementary)    8. Teaching Methods & Materials - Science & Technology   

Reviews (15)

Just what I wanted
When I bought this book I didn't know how it would change my life... It's a lovely book. Susan knows how to be incisive when she needs to, but still she's lovely in this moments. I've considered suicide many times in my life, I'm lucky I never got really to act upon my thoughts...
Essential reading
I wish I'd had a copy of this book when I was suicidal. It's full of simple, practical ideas for keeping yourself safe and beginning to feel better. The crisis plan is especially good, and easy to follow even when you find it hard to think straight. The only reason I gave this book four stars rather than five is that I came across it after I'd recovered, and haven't tried out all of its techniques myself - but from my experience of what did help me, they're all excellent.
Not So Helpful Overall
I am thrilled that proceeds from this book are being donated to 1-800-SUICIDE, a very useful resource. It seems the author suffered more from ideation rather than true suicidality; I didn't find any novel ideas for addressing the latter. Many suggestions presuppose the presence of a support system and financial resources, things lacking for many suicidal people. Most of the Tricks are simply common sense and seem trite to a genuinely suicidal reader. Though glad she made it through her difficult times, I'm still looking for a helpful guide for the chronically suicidal folks who are in grave danger of dying at their own hands. ... Read more

Subjects:  1. General    2. Prevention    3. Psychological aspects    4. Psychology    5. Suicidal behavior    6. Suicide    7. Self-Help / General   

Reviews (9)

for wives who have lost a husband.
i bought this for my dad after my mom died.i was dissapointed. it should be titled 'when a man dies' with advice like 'wake up each morning and put on some lipstick' it is clearly written with a woman reader in mind.

This Book is a Gift from the Heart!
I know, as a grief therapist, that not everyone can express themselves easily in a group, or even in a one-to-one setting with a therapist like myself.That's why I love this book!It can probably do a better job with the healing process than myself or other therapists (well, at least it is a great help to what we do!).
Pouring Your Personal Pain onto Paper
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Subjects:  1. Bereavement    2. Death / Grief / Consolation    3. Death, Grief, Bereavement    4. Grief    5. Problems, exercises, etc    6. Psychological aspects    7. Self-Help    8. Spouses   

Reviews (5)

Helps us lighten the load of life on a daily basis.
Educational and entertaining, this book relays convincing evidence as to the psychological and physiological benefits of humor. The author gives concrete and helpgful techniques and suggestions as to how we can begin to bring more joy and laughter into our lives. Lots of humorous anecdotes and examples bring the points home.I found this book informative and motivational.

A staple item for the humor lover's bookshelf
Since reading this book in 1994, I have used it as a reference for my life AND work. Using a warm and witty style of writing, Allen teaches us the physiological and emotional benefits of mirth.My favorite chapter title is "Strike While the Irony is Hot!"So clever!! I recommend this book to friends who are facing life challenges and to everyone who attends my workshops.On a more personal note, since embracing The Healing Power of Humor, I felt freer to add a little levity to my Aunt Alice's funeral.My family was amazingly grateful.Me too!

A real pick-me-up
Wonderful book, which truly elevated my spirits so much that people started complimenting me about my positive attitude.Good bedtime reading.Chapters are written so that you study one "lesson" per day. ... Read more

Subjects:  1. Adjustment (Psychology)    2. Death, Grief, Bereavement    3. Emotions    4. General    5. Laughter    6. Psychological aspects    7. Psychology    8. Self-Help    9. Wit and humor    10. Self-Help & Practical Interests    11. Self-Help / General    12. therapy   

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Best Intro to the Natural History of Tropical Forests
Buy this Book!This book is a great read for anybody who is interested in life on our planet.It would make a dandy companion to E.O. Wilson's "The Diversity of Life."

ENCHANTING DEPICTION OF THE RAIN FOREST
Among books that aim to express to readers the wonders of the rain forest, this one stands out.In 17 chapters that touch upon different aspects of the rain forest, the authors transmit their own passion for the rain forest and the unique intricacies that make rain forests some of the most precious places on earth.
an educational and interesting book
This is a book that we are using in a Tropical Ecosystem course at my University.The book is very insightful and educational, while at the same time being very interesting and easy to read. ... Read more

Subjects:  1. Central America    2. Life Sciences - Ecology    3. Life Sciences - Ecology - Ecosystems    4. Nature/Ecology    5. Rain forest ecology    6. Science    7. South America    8. Forests, rainforests    9. NATURAL HISTORY, COUNTRY LIFE & PETS    10. Science / General   

Subjects:  1. Career/Job    2. Home Care    3. Home Health Aides    4. Home nursing    5. Homemaker Services    6. Medical    7. Medical / Nursing    8. Nursing - General    9. Nursing Aides    10. Terminal Care    11. Visiting housekeepers    12. Medical / Home Care    13. Nursing   

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Comprehensive
Grief, whether parents, spouse, friend, is devastating and complicated.Finding "the right" comfort for the bereaved is challenging.However, this book is extremely helpful, no matter what circumstances.When my mother died, I was overwhelmed with fatigue, and unbelievable loss.A friend sent me this book.A chapter a day is manageable...and so I began my "journey."Some days I read and meditated on several chapters.At the end of 4 months, one day I woke up, feeling refreshed, and NOT FATIGUED any more!It was mind-boggling!Amazing.No one had prepared me for the physical stages of grief. This book does more than soothe the soul; it gives shared experiences in order to understand the deep process of grieving.
Not recommended for those who are not devout Christians.
I have read several books on grief since my husband died four months ago at the age of 42. While this book has a few good comforting vignettes to share, the references to God in each chapter were not helpful. After the story of each person's grief, each chapter ends with a paragraph or two describing how to get through grief is to "trust in God". I found a much better book to be "Chicken Soup for the Grieving Soul".

this book is God-sent!
finally, i found TRUE company through this book! my husband was killed in iraq last year and i really had a difficult time recovering; some days i'm ok, some days i'm not.. but this book (among the 6 Grief books i bought) is by far the best one.. highly recommended!! it puts into words the things i couldn't seem to express fully because of the heaviness i feel.. it's only a page or two a day of reading, and it tackles almost all topics involved in the grieving process in a Christian perspective (there's no other guaranteed way than the Christian-perspective way, believe me). i don't think i still need the other books i bought, this one's enough to keep me going.. Stay blessed. ... Read more

Subjects:  1. Bereavement    2. Christianity    3. Consolation    4. Death, Grief, Bereavement    5. Devotional    6. Grief    7. Meditations    8. Psychology    9. Religion    10. Religious aspects   

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Mosby's Textbook for Long-term care Nursing Assistants
I bought this book along with other recommended reference booksfor CNAs, and in my opinion this one is the best.It is absolutely a pleasure to read, easy to follow procedures, great color pictures and illustrations.Very user-friendly format.I was actually looking forward to study time using this book. Out of date in body mechanics/transfers/safety
As a nursing instructor working closely with rehab we found this book out of date, with no changes in transfers, body mechanics that have been updated for safety throughout the years. The demos show transfers with staff using poor body mechanics, leaning over residents, not using lower legs using lower back muscles. Moving a person to the side of the bed technique demonstratess segmental movement taking the resident out of body alignment. There are up to date techniques for this. Mercury thermometers are no longer used. A two person transfer to the wheelchair in this book involves picking up the resident from the back and lifting with someone in the front with the legs. if a resident needs this then a hoyer a must. For back safety! The Essentials of Nursing Assistants by Mosby Second Edition, includes the same outdated pictures and demonstrations.

Mosby's Textbook for Long-term Care Assistants
As a teacher of nursing assistants, I find the book to be the most helpful.Easy reading, descriptive drawings for the procedures they must learn and practice.I am looking forward to an addition of a "student Workbook".Although this textbook does has excellent chapter reviewswith practice questions and answers.The State exam is 100 questions longand this helps them with not fearing answering multiple choice questions. ... Read more

Subjects:  1. Allied Health Services - Medical Assistants    2. Health Care Issues    3. Long-Term Patient Care    4. Long-term care of the sick    5. Medical    6. Medical / Nursing    7. Nurses' aides    8. Nursing - General    9. Nursing Personnel    10. Terminal Care    11. Family & Health    12. Health systems & services    13. Medical / Nursing Home Care    14. Nursing   

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I needed this
I did not lose my mother from death but from a custody battle and have not seen her since I was 4 years old.Recently I gave birth to my own daughter and from the day I found out I was pregnant with her I could not believe how much grief, hurt, and confusion that went through me.It was almost as if all of those childhood pains from losing my mother surfaced the day my daughter was born.I felt cluless. I raised a son just fine but once I had my daughter I questioned so many things and longed for that motherly affection I so long ago lost.This book was a GOD SEND to me because I felt like I was the only one to feel this way.It helped me to understand these feelings of confusion were normal. Thank you for this book Hope!

Too many variables to hold being motherless as the sole responsible factor....
Being motherless affects so much of who I am; I realized this through Edelman's previous book, "Motherless Daughters". I laughed and cried my way through the pages of that book, so I was intrigued by the publication of "Motherless Mothers".
Another Great Book by Hope Edelman
Any mother that is trying to navigate the world of parenting without her own mother there to guide her needs to read this book!! I love Edelman's writing style - plain, frank and to the point. Many times reading this book I felt like she was talking right to me....she has captured the profound loss all of us motherless mothers feel.She has a nice balance of writing about her own loss and feelings, along with the experiences of other motherless mothers around the country, with just enough research and statistics thrown in to not be boring. This is a compelling, sometimes heart-wrenching read, but any motherless mother will take comfort while reading this book in knowing that they are not alone. Thank you, Hope, for writing this book for us!! ... Read more

Subjects:  1. Adult children    2. Death, Grief, Bereavement    3. Developmental - Adulthood & Aging    4. Family & Relationships    5. Family / Parenting / Childbirth    6. Family Psychology    7. Family/Marriage    8. General    9. Maternal deprivation    10. Mothers    11. Parent And Child    12. Parenting - Motherhood    13. Psychology    14. Family & Relationships / General   

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this book is a gift
this book is very inspiring, it motivates the reader to be positive and get in touch with one's good self, and then share this goodness with everyone around.
Superb message and writing
The late Philip Simmons left the world a wonderful gift with this book. I pulled it off the shelf in a very low time and found it to be inspiring in many ways. Simmons was a creative writing teacher and it shows in this work, which is full of beautiful images as well as beautiful ideas.

Writers are like bears...
These short essays are gems of style and content.Phillip Simmons was not an existentialist railing against his suffering, but a Stoic/Buddhist personality that loved his family and loved to climb mountains.He died in 2002.
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Subjects:  1. Biography / Autobiography    2. Death, Grief, Bereavement    3. Religion    4. Religious    5. Specific Groups - Special Needs    6. Spirituality - General    7. Religion / Spirituality   

Reviews (8)

A spiritual death
Often the most profound healing took place in those who did eventually die, but their deaths were transformed into experiences of beauty and grace. Levine concluded that real healing occurred when the heart was opened and there was a balanced integration of body, mind, heart, and soul.

books like this
Like all stephen's books we should all be given them at school!The person who hated the book because they cried should maybe read it again....and again....

mind bogling
This is a very interesting book, however, very difficult to understand. If your looking for something easier to digest, look elsewhere. The Tibetan book of living and dying by S. Ripoche is probably a better choice. ... Read more

Subjects:  1. Death    2. Death / Grief / Consolation    3. Death, Grief, Bereavement    4. General    5. Mental health    6. New Age movement    7. Philosophy    8. Psychological aspects    9. Spiritual healing    10. Complementary Medicine    11. Philosophy / General   

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Uplifting
Reviewed by Shannon Bailes for Reader Views (9/06)
Melody at her finest
They say that the teacher appears when the student is ready, and this again is true for me with Melody's latest.This is Melody at her finest. I have never been let down or disappointed in any of her books.Her sharing of experience, strength and hope has allowed me to understand myself and my experiences better.I was guided to this book at a time when I have been stuggling with my own health issues and accepting them.
An Experience
I cried through the first chapter. The next morning I felt like I came out of a dark place into the light. I felt whole again.
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Subjects:  1. Bereavement    2. Death / Grief / Consolation    3. Death And Dying (Sociological Aspects)    4. Death, Grief, Bereavement    5. Grief    6. Loss (Psychology)    7. Psychological aspects    8. Self-Help    9. Self-Help / Death, Grief, Bereavement   

Subjects:  1. Medical    2. Mental Health    3. Psychiatry - Psychopharmacology    4. Psychology    5. Psychotherapy - Counseling    6. Suicidal Behavior    7. Suicide    8. Clinical psychology    9. Pharmacology    10. Psychiatry    11. Psychology & Psychiatry / Psychopharmacology   

Reviews (20)

Keep Tissues Handy
I was skimming the stacks in the Grief section when "The Orphaned Adult" caught my eye.What a cold, harsh title, I thought - yet I was compelled to read it.Until then, I'd never come across a book written specifically for those who have lost both parents, and it was good to see that someone had finally addressed this life-changing event.What took so long?
Best of the bunch
My mom died a year ago. I read many books in an attempt to understand and cope with my feelings. This book stood out as the very best. I read and reread it and even read it a year later. I have given it to several friends going through their own loss of parents and all have given it high marks.
Levy gave words to my feelings; sense to my 'orphaned' life
I thought "orphaned adult" was my phrase and my unique emotional state following the deaths of both of my parents within a year--and at 56, I was uncomfortable with the depth of my grief and feeling of child-like despair at their absences.It was consumming without visible end.Levy gives words to those feelings and context to that grief and child-like despair, whatever your age.And he shines a light that is true in his eiplogue--there WILL be a day when you awake and (she) is not the first thing you think of . . . when you go about your business and it is an hour, three hours . . before something brings her to mind.You don't forget, but you start living your life again in memory and love.I cannot recommend this book enough ........... ... Read more

Subjects:  1. Death / Grief / Consolation    2. Death, Grief, Bereavement    3. General    4. Psychology    5. Coping with death & bereavement   

Editorial Review

A practical guide for coping with the loss of a parent, this book was written by a journalist who has lost both. Edward Myers makes it clear that no matter how old we are, the death of a parent can be devastating, evoking intense and complex feelings that have long-lasting implications. Comprised of advice from therapists, practices for self-help groups and first-person accounts, Myers covers the grieving process and differentiates between the impact of sudden death and slow decline. He also offers advice for funeral planning, dividing personal property and resolving feelings such as guilt, shame and isolation. ... Read more

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not much use
I read this whole book. And once I was done, I still was left wondering, what now. It really hasn't done anything for me...

A guide for Adults-When parents die
I did read this book, I felt it was lengthy in content, some
Buy This Book if Your Parent Is Ill ... DON'T Wait!!!
My beloved mother recently died and this book was recommended to me by the hospice counselors. I only wish I had known about it in the months prior to Mom's death.If you have a parent who is suffering a potentially long illness, especially with increasingly extensive care and nursing needs, buy this book NOW -- don't wait!It offers many helpful resources on the practical sideas well as offering comfort and understanding. As the author says, "There is perhaps no greater source of needless frustration during a family crisis than the belief that you are dealing with it entirely alone. Even the most competent adult can be worn down..."He then proceeds to provide resources in the Appendix, including organizations and resources to find "Information on Death and Dying", "Information on Aging and Care of the Aging" (including the organization called Children of Aging Parents...which I wish I had known about earlier), "Information About Health Issues", "Information on Alcohol and Drug Abuse", "Information on Hospice Care", "Information on Funeral and Memorial Societies", "Information on Living Wills and Organ Donation", "Information on Suicide Prevention and Counseling", "Information on Widowhood", "Information on Assistance for Women", among other topics. If it's too late for that, you will also find this book helpful as it presents compassionate advice for coping with the emotional and practical aspects of losing a parent. Everyone's story and emotional handling of this life-changing event is unique, but you will inevitably find yourself in some of the examples that the author uses. In a time like this, it's comforting to know you're not alone and it is possible to cope. Another book with a different approach, but which is also comforting is "How to Survive the Loss of a Parent" by Lois F. Akner, CSW. ... Read more

Subjects:  1. Bereavement    2. Death    3. Death, Grief, Bereavement    4. Grief    5. Parenting - Parent & Adult Child    6. Parents    7. Psychological aspects    8. Psychology    9. Self-Help / Death, Grief, Bereavement   

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My own experience with grief
I would recommend this book not only for those who are experiencing the horrific pain associated with grief, but also for those who love them. Many of my friends and family members have bought Kathleen O'Hara's book and have gained a better understanding of what I and my family are going through.
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Subjects:  1. Bereavement    2. Death, Grief, Bereavement    3. General    4. Grief    5. Psychological Aspects Of Bereavement    6. Psychological aspects    7. Psychology    8. Self-Help    9. Violent deaths    10. Self-Help / Death, Grief, Bereavement   

Reviews (12)

excellent
I have never had a doubt in my mind that babies and young children that die go to heaven. To me, it has always been a matter of common sense. Just knowing about God's character has always been proof enough for me. His divine grace knows no bounds. His mercy is greater than His wrath. Coming to earth in human form to die for our sins, even though we don't deserve it, is the greatest proof of this. Therefore, I have always believed that His grace covers those that have not yet developed the intelligence to distinguish between right and wrong. However, I wanted my beliefs to be based on more than just my own intuition. I wanted Scriptural proof beyond the concepts of God's unfailing love and all encompassing grace. Unfortunately, I am no theologian. As such, I often need help in looking for the answers I seek within Scripture. Thankfully, John MacArthur has published this well-researched and theologically sound book on the subject of infant death.
Hope
My wife and I lost our precious daughter Hope after only thirty mintues with her.I knew a little about what the bible teaches on the subjects and where to find the basics, so I knew that she was with God.I still I found this book to be extremely helpful in fleshing out the whole topic and answering some questions I could not find the answers to on my own.I especially admired how Dr. MacArthur relied on Scripture for his entire argument.There was no wishful thinking in this volume just sound biblical teaching.
Wonderful, but has some views that are clearly Protestant
As a Catholic trying to cope with the loss of a child, I'd say this book is 99% wonderful and 1% that I'm not in agreement with.This is clearly biblically Protestant in which there are "missing links".Although I completely agree that the Lord is merciful towards babies and innocent young children, I do not agree with what he states about instant Heaven with adults and older children.If you are Catholic or Orthodox, take this into mind and discernment that this is not in junction with the teaching of our Church. Otherwise its a wonderful tool in knowing that our babies are very much alive in Heaven waiting for their families. ... Read more

Subjects:  1. Bible - Topical Studies    2. Christianity    3. Christianity - Christian Life - General    4. Consolation    5. Death    6. Death / Grief / Consolation    7. Death, Grief, Bereavement    8. Fetal death    9. Infants (Newborn)    10. Religion    11. Religious aspects    12. Counseling    13. Family & Relationships / Death, Grief, Bereavement    14. Inspiration   

Reviews (5)

Very good reading for children!
My 9 year-old son recently lost his father and he was not talking to me or any family members about his feelings. This book was very thorough for a young person and it helped him to open dialogue with me and start his grieving process. I highly recommend this book.

Helpful for Basic Questions of A Child Experiencing A Death
This book provides brief and blunt answers to questions many children may have and adults may not consider - it touches on 'What is a Memorial Service', 'Where does the person go', 'Am I Going To Die Too?', 'Is the Death My Fault' as well as common feelings experienced while grieving.Each topic is brief and written for a child.
Childish illustration paired with Blunt realism.
I bought this for my 4 1/2 year old, she has never seen it. I found it too clinical, and not at all what I had imagined having read the other reviews. The cartoons seemed aimed at my daughters age group, yet the writing is in my opinion, not for little ones. I showed this book to my twelve year old niece, thinking maybe the target was more in her age range. Her response was an incredulous "isnt this supposed to make you feel better!?"... ... Read more

Subjects:  1. Adjustment (Psychology) in chi    2. Adjustment (Psychology) in children    3. Bereavement in children    4. Children's 9-12 - Sociology    5. Children's Books/Ages 9-12 Nonfiction    6. Children: Grades 3-4    7. Death    8. Grief in children    9. Juvenile Nonfiction    10. Juvenile literature    11. Social Issues - Death & Dying    12. Social Science - Psychology    13. Social Situations - Death & Dying    14. Social Studies - General    15. Death & dying    16. Suicide, death & bereavement   

Reviews (16)

The Worst Lost
This book was a wonderful tool in coping with a parents loss of a child.It was given to me when my husband and I lost our youngest daughter seven years ago and I have had several people that I know loose their own child and I gave the book to them.I never received a response from one of the couples but the most recent book that I bought the mother has thank me over and over again.

Too raw
I found this book too raw to finish reading, and left me feeling totally hopeless about whether or not I would survive.I started reading this book just a few weeks after my son's death; perhaps if I had waited I would have found it more helpful.

Very Helpful, Professional, Well Written
Since the death of my son in 2003, I have read many books on bereavement. This is one of the best. It is inclusive for many causes of death and it covers the whole topic in a compassionate way. I have given this book to others who have lost a child, but I keep one for reference. This is a book to refer back to and highlight the points that you want to remember. ... Read more

Subjects:  1. Bereavement    2. Children    3. Death    4. Death, Grief, Bereavement    5. Family    6. General    7. Psychological aspects    8. Psychology    9. Self-Help   

Reviews (5)

Be informed
Think you or your parent don't need a health care proxy?Think again, and use Sharon Kaufman's AND A TIME TO DIE to help you realize just how important it is to determine the direction you want your life to take at its conclusion, and to have someone who understands your wishes and can speak for you.
One of the most valuable books I've read this year
I am a medical ethicist, and as I read Kaufman's "And a Time to Die" I found myself thinking back to the hospital case consultations I've been involved in. Her observations and conclusions helped me to piece together a much more detailed picture of what's really going on in those situations. Her discussion of pathways, time pressures, reimbursement concerns, and the use of language all ring true. Those who are familiar with hospital settings will recognize much of what Kaufman has observed (a fact that another reviewer objects to), but I believe that she is able to take a "bird's eye view" of these issues in a way that organizes and extends our understanding.
Circles, But Never Lands
The author of this book goes inside the modern American hospital system as an anthropologist, and reports what takes place there when the system is confronted with a terminally ill patient. She examines what cultural imperatives are being brought to bear there to make this an increasingly problematic and decidedly "unnatural" process.
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Subjects:  1. Death    2. Death & Dying    3. Hospital care    4. Medical    5. Medical / Nursing    6. Social aspects    7. Terminal Care    8. Terminal Care Medicine    9. Thanatology    10. United States    11. Self-Help / General